Tee and I have somehow segued into friend zone territory - catching up once a day on average to share the minutiae of life, moan about our respective bosses and all the other things working adults who live alone find the time to complain about.
She has had a lot on her plate lately between work, illness and family visits, as I have been with work and my urgent trip down south to Sheffield to sort out the small matter of a visa.
The fall out of all that has been that we have somehow settled into a routine; one in which all urgency and drive to gain definition and clarity has been lost, probably because I am wont to not be selfish in pushing for it amidst all that is going on.
Somehow in the mix, the conversation with S. which hasn’t still happened did get previewed. It confirms what I’d largely suspected - she’s still got a bit of resolution and closure required before she can move on from the ex-BF..
So between steady routine with Tee and the uncertainty with S., it does feel like one is treading water…
Sigh :(