Spare me some nostalgia...

I think things tend to look either worse off or better off in retrospect.. There must be a technical term for that - like nostalgia bias, or retrospection bias or warreva… (Help me out one of you psychologists)… Bottom line is i think when we look back at the past, we either think its much better than it actually was, or much worse…. I just had such a moment.. Thankfully, Me the pragmatist won - eventually….. Blame insomnia, the wacky DJ over at Capital FM, and nostalgia…. ...

April 29, 2010 · 1 min · AJ

Seventh Time around.

They say a righteous man falls seven times but rises up again. I don’t know about being righteous, but I sure have had falls, hopefully this is the seventh, in which I finally get to find me. The pieces of the life are coming together again, I’ve resolved my long standing ‘fight’ with my sister, I got great feedback on my first three months in a new role, I’ve made two great friends in my new city and I’ve started running thrice a week :) I have a lot to be thankful for, this is a new journey (hopefully). Welcome aboard.

April 28, 2010 · 1 min · AJ

30 is the real cool.....

Despite what the preponderance of mid-life crises and suicides around the 30 year age bracket would suggest, 30’s the new cool - and that for a variety of reasons. For starters, people take you serious by default. In your teens they know you’ll faff around, in your twenties they’ll assume you’re growing and the occasional gaffe can be excused. In your 30’s they actually believe you know what you are about until you goof. Ain’t that uber-cool? You get pimped for free. Depending on how far gone you are on the continuum, every one want to match make you. The best friend from University wants to hook you up with a niece, your cousins want to hitch you with friends and all that ish. Downside is it generally tends to rub you the wrong way - but hey who cares? They’re concerned.. That’s why! All the unmarried chics from earlier on for whom you had crushes suddenly see you as a serious option especially if you have made good on the success your geekery promised as a precocious teenager. Chances are you’re so clueless around women that you do not have a baby mama in the background, which seems to be a huge plus these days.. Chances are you have a strand of gray hair here and there - and true to type if you wear glasses, you actually look cool (gasp). You, the sore-thumb-sticking-out-almost-worwor-bloke, suddenly has the desirable features of respectability. Last but not the least, you actually have ten more years to play the fool - after all a fool at forty is a fool forever, but not before :)

April 25, 2010 · 2 min · AJ

Dodgy TV Adverts..

You know you need help - from mindlessly watching TV - when TV ads start getting to you. In my defense, these two have to be up there with the worst ads I’ve ever seen! Enjoy.. [youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_-9QFvhQWo] [youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MXiJBp7HK5o] I guess they work by catching one’s attention, even if only by irritating one..

April 21, 2010 · 1 min · AJ

Trading Places..

I still go read this - over a year after it was originally posted…..

April 12, 2010 · 1 min · AJ

An epilogue of sorts......

I have begun dreaming of things best left unsaid, things best left to gently slide into oblivion far beyond the edge of consciousness. Here there are voices, and fleeting faces, floating by as though swimming in some nebulous unseen ether. I would blame malaria or the slew of unknown brews at Dame Hayatou’s, but these are things I have seen in the flesh - less the twisting, less the turning in the dead of night and the turmoil that brings them back to mind. These are the memories of a not so distant past, of what-ifs and maybes and could-haves blatantly refusing to accept the cold hard facts.. ...

April 12, 2010 · 1 min · AJ

Get your 'Pee' on..

A fascinating history of peeing…. Apparently Mahatma Ghandi drank it regularly… http://www.neatorama.com/2010/04/08/bizarre-facts-about-pee/#more-30566

April 8, 2010 · 1 min · AJ

Yay..

The first quarter performance review was short and sweet - I think… The recovery is under way.. Now we need to secure it… (as Gordon Brown likes to put it)

April 4, 2010 · 1 min · AJ

Help.....

The association of married and pregnant women holds its meetings twice a week. I don’t have a problem with that, except for the minor fact that they unfailingly decide to set up camp across the room from my pod at work. No, my character has not being impugned in any way - I am neither responsible, nor even remotely implicated, but their choice of venue riles me… The topics covered are varied, but time after time they settle on being pregnant and being hot…… They can be excused - the oldest of them is twenty-six and they’re all first timers.. looking to work as long as possible before they hit the motherhood trail…. For the hour they meet, all we get to hear is trimesters, weight gain, gym routines for pregnant women… and a whole slew of designers I’ve never heard of… ...

March 30, 2010 · 1 min · AJ

The Grass is Always Greener...

Barry Schwartz, writing in The Paradox of Choice makes a compelling argument - to my mind - for cutting down the options.. One paragraph on the subject of life and partners grabbed my attention. .. inevitably, you will find people who are younger, better looking, funnier, smarter, or seemingly more understanding and empathetic than your wife or husband. But finding a life partner is not a matter of comparison shopping and ’trading up’. The only way to find happiness and stability in the presence of seemingly attractive and tempting options is to say, “I’m simply not going there' ...

March 26, 2010 · 1 min · AJ